Tuesday, 16 May 2017

Annals of the Book-club: Organ donors and Internet shaming

Recently we held another meeting of the Book-club at the Club.  It was our fourth meeting; there had been another one a month ago, but I didn't feel up to writing a post about it.  Wracked by guilt, I am doing both books in one post, so you can't say I neglect you completely!


Never let me go, by Kazuo Ishiguro


Being blunt about it, this is one of the most boring books I have ever read, almost as bad as 'Mr Bottesby does something', which latter book is so boring that it seems to have bored itself out of existence (I gave my copy away about ten years ago, in case you want to borrow it to fight your insomnia).

Ishiguro seems to have a pathological need to be so subtle as to be soporific.  I initially had high hopes for this book, since I am very interested in organ transplants (totally against them) and was up for an intelligent, unusual take on the subject matter.  Now I can take boring books; I even read Jane Austin's Emma, a long time ago, before there was an internet and one relied more on making one's own entertainment.  What I can't forgive so easily is taking a really good idea and then boring it into extinction.

The characters are wholly unsympathetic - by the time I was half-way through the story I no longer cared even vaguely about what would happened to them.  They are like card board cut-outs of real people, bloodless, non-human, unbelievable as people.

The story is badly told.  Ishiguro indulges himself by hinting, suggesting, and carelessly dropping clues which may or may not turn out to be relevant.  He plays hide and seek with the reader, which would be just about bearable if it lead up to a towering finale.  But it actually leads to a pathetic little whimper of an ending, where the characters accept their fate demurely without any creditable attempt to avoid it.  Even the love story, supposedly so important, fizzles out even before the male partner makes his last donation (ie gets killed off for his vital organs).

The basic premises of the story are preposterous.  If humanity really decided to breed clones so we could use their organs for transplants, we would not give them 25 years of a good life first.  We would not educate them, encourage them to produce art work, write essays, live on a farm, etc etc.  We would genetically engineer them to have tiny brains so they couldn't rebel and wouldn't realise what we were doing to them, and we would kill them as soon as they were adult - latest by age 18.  Also, we would not take one organ, then take care of them in hospital, then a few months or years later take the second organ, and so on until they died because they lost too many organs.  We would take all the organs at once and get it over with.

Another criticism is that the story is badly structured.  Having wasted the first nine tenth of the book meandering aimlessly through the irrelevant memories of insignificant characters, Ihiguro suddenly realises that the book needs to be finished, and introduces one big hat from which he pulls all the rabbits he needs to finish off the story.

Having said all that, the book club did have an excellent discussion about the book, and also about organ transplants.  I was in a solid majority of one - everyone else disagreed with me, but I knew I was right!


So you've been publicly shamed, by Jon Ronson


This was a very different book!  Written by a journalist in  a lively, informative way, there was lots of interesting information about the evil underbelly of the internet, most of which I had little idea existed.

The way public internet shaming works is that someone makes a relatively innocent comment on Facebook or Twitter, and someone else considers the comment to be massively offensive and shares it amongst the more idle sections of the internet community, who have nothing better to do than to pass derogatory comments on others, and create what I believe is called a 'Shit-Storm'.

An unedifying spectacle ensues, where people with more bile than brain attack the hapless original comments-poster from a swiftly assumed morally superior position, which gets just as swiftly undermined by the out of all proportional viciousness of the critics' comments.  I mean, seriously, threatening to rape someone for having posted a picture considered offensive to veterans?  How these people can claim an attitude of moral superiority after attacking anyone in such a way is beyond me.

And it doesn't stop at making threatening comments!  People's home and work addresses and private telephone numbers are published, and some unfortunate comments posters lose their jobs and livelihoods because of some relatively minor missteps.

Of course all this should not really have shocked or surprised me, given the vitriol and barbaric threats that for example female politicians - Hillary Clinton, anyone? - have to endure just for daring to presume a position in public life.

Reading the book - which I can highly recommend - made me feel glad that I never activated the comments function on my blog!

We had an excellent discussion about this book, too!

I am not really doing it justice here, that's what happens when one does a blogpost ten days after the event!  The book is not just about internet shaming, but also covers cases where someone embellished a story to make it look better in a book and got caught, cases where sexual peccadilloes were discovered and slavered over by the gutter press, and delves into the psychological reasons of both the misbehaving victims of shaming and the self-righteous shamers themselves.

Suffice it to say that this is an informative, entertaining, well written, and very thought provoking book, which I will continue to recommend to others.

Wednesday, 26 April 2017

Celebrating the 26th of April - shopping will do!

The real me!


I took the afternoon off work today, intent on having a long walk along the Themse, as a sort of companion piece to the one I took along the Seine last Saturday, but the weather was against me.

The whole afternoon was 15 minute episodes of rain interspersed with short periods of sunshine - I got wet four times, then threw in the towel.  I did manage to take one or two photos, but they aren't very interesting, so I posted this picture of my Alter Ego, Hixi, instead.

Thus thwarted by the climate, I went shopping!

Not massively successful - I was looking - still! - for a green hat to go with my yellow dress.  I visited at least a dozen shops, but no hats - nor indeed gloves - did I find.

I did, however, find new towels!  Sunshine yellow, perfectly matching the aforementioned yellow dress.  Not that I usually wear a towel over my dress, but still.  I do love that shade of yellow!  And I last bought towels when I bought the house, so it was about time.

Towel

Dress

ditto
 

You have to admit this is a totally beautiful dress.

However, upon reflection, not the sort of dress to wear to a superior sort of garden party?  With a green hat, with perhaps a small parrot perched on top?  And green gloves with yellow polka dots?  Perhaps, it occurred to me as I searched in vain for green hats and gloves, a somewhat less dramatic outfit would be more suitable?  Perhaps the yellow dress could be used for less formal occasions?

So I went in search of a more suitable outfit.  Dear Reader!  Have you ever, against your ingrained parsimonious nature, resolved to spend a small fortune on an entirely frivolous item, only to search for it fruitlessly all over town?  

That was my portion today.  I looked in department stores, classy second hand stores, and even Harrods, but didn't see a single outfit that interested me (more than the yellow dress / green parrot combination, that is).

Finally I remembered a charity shop just along the road from Harrods, which I had discovered some years ago, and decided to make that my last stop before I gave up.

And Glory Be! I found a very beautiful dress and jacket outfit by Max Mara (see below).  I am very pleased with it.  Now all I need to do is to NOT wear it with a green hat with a parrot perched on top, and I am all settled.  A black hat, perhaps, with black gloves and black shoes, would be suitable.  Also much easier to find, I think.

In real light it is a very rich red, sort of strawberry


So I did have rather a good day after all - sunshine yellow towels in the bathroom, and an outfit for my garden party, all the more appreciated because I bought it - relatively cheaply - after having passed up so many inferior - and much more expensive! - offerings.

Happy 26th of April!

Sunday, 23 April 2017

Strolling along the Seine on an overcast day

Duck family on the banks of the Seine

I was in Paris this weekend, first time this year.  The weather was overcast and we didn't do much.  After a long leisurely lunch in a little cafe near Notre Dame we wandered along the banks of the river, which has recently been pedestrianised.  So wonderful to be able to promenade where cars used to speed and pollute!

Half way along I remembered that I still needed a hat for my royal garden party and we headed for the only hat shop (or so it seems) in Paris.  A grave disappointment, like most hat shops.  All I want is a green hat, green with yellow undertones, a green like new leaves in Spring, with little flecks of yellow - you would think this to be a popular colour, available in every half decent hat shop, but no such luck.  Black brown and grey, that's about all that wass available.

We then nipped into my favourite scarf shop, but didn't see anything worth buying.  Finally we drifted into Richard Grand, whose cashmere shawls have long tickled my fancy, and I fell for a bright orange one which should look very nice with green or yellow.

After that there was the Panhaligon's shop, where A discovered that her favourite perfume had been discontinued - isn't that always the way?

Then we had drinks and discussed the upcoming election.

We live in trying times!

Thank God for scarves and Picsou!



 










Cafe instead of cars!

And lots of little play grounds!






The removed the locks from the bridges, but they found new homes!









Gardens on ships, one of my favourite sights!

Is that lettuce I spot?

An anchored little island ...

...for a duck sanctuary!




I still think it is a shocking treatment for scarves!

Catching Up - Gluten-free cakes in Paris


I know I am totally behind .... But last year I finally managed to go to the gluten-free bakery in the centre of Paris to see my friend Sebastian, the maestro of cakes who used to work in a little bakery around the corner from me in Oxford.


The cakes are of course delicious!

Having eaten our fill, we meandered on to the Ba'ta'clan - it was shortly after the terrorist attack, and the atmosphere was muted and thoughtful.